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Sunday, March 27, 2016

Been a long time but it is time

WE have made it to 2016!  Who would have thunk it!

Updates:

Building a home in Lewisburg, PA.  Nice place, rural, country living!

We both have good jobs and enjoying life.  There have been challenges too, but that is normal....right

Anyways I am working at Bucknell University, Cassie is a Social Worker at an Elementary School in the Area.

I am the Director of Outdoor Education and Leadership!  Finally got to the career of a lifetime! Only took since 2003!

Starting to get traveling again!  We have gone to Oklahoma with Family, Oregon and California, New Mexico and Colorado, Got a fantastic Puppy named Gila!  Saw some awesome friends get married and Cassie also was responsible for facilitating the marriages of some of them.  Went to the Columbia River Gorge area for a backpacking trip, and I just got back from Costa Rica.  Next Adventure is the Tour Du Mont Blanc (France, Italy, and Switzerland)!   It is hard to put all 3 years of adventures into a small paragraph!    Cassie's Mom and Dad sold their home in Southbury CT but now are moving to the CAPE.  Both Ken and Joan retired (Ken soon, summer 2016).   My parents are just traveling to FL and back and my pops is still working!  Good times to be had by all.  What will our next adventure be!!





Monday, April 2, 2012

Wow been a long time

Well we are still in Golden! IT is Spring 2012. The weather is wet/rainy/sleet, but the weather has been in the 80's. The garden has begun. We have 3 going. Tony is looking for a job. Cassie is working hard and doing well professionally. So I am just gardening. I am doing well at that.

Just got back from Costa Rica and Cassie and I will be heading back in May of 2012. Good times. Other than that, we are chugging along, playing outside, and paying off credit cards and student loans. Due to that we are laying low!

Have a good one!

Enjoy living the dream!

Friday, July 22, 2011

Lot's of changes

So after the holidays we pushed hard to finish our last few semesters of schoolwork.

In MAY of 2011 the hard work paid off and Cassie Graduated with her MSW from Norfolk STATE! We are truly happy for her and believe she has found her calling.

Tony has accepted a position in Golden, CO. It is at the Colorado School of Mines. It is full time contract work, little pay but a good step in the correct direction.

Cassie is off to Norway today to work another awesome bike trip. She is actually in Colorado already but leaving. She drove across country visited some awesome sights along the way, hung out with friends and family, and bonded with her lovely mother the entire way who helped split the driving.

Tony will not be leaving until the 29th of July. Work begins August 8. He is still in school for one more semester then the dissertation process begins.

Cassie and I have traveled to the Outerbanks in NC, Cape Cod for 4th of July and taught SUSIE how to eat lobster....YUM, went to NC for a camping weekend with Amy and her new BEAU. That was nice. Tony did a bike tour trip from Norfolk to Fredericksburg VA 180 miles 4 days and Tony also did a 12 Pacific Northwest mountaineering training in Washington state. THAT TRIP WAS AMAZING along with the others of course.

Lastly on a sad note we traveled to CT after Cassie's Grandmother passed. She was a wonderful British woman from London. She taught me a lot of British culture to help me connect with my own roots, being that my Great Grandmother was from England and I knew her at a very young age. She will be missed but live a happy wonderful life that stretched over several wars and world events.

There have been changes but most for the positive. We are excited to get to Golden! Cassies says the apartment is way better than what we live in now so that will help the move be easier. Leaving Old Dominion will be tough. The experience has been great. You never know I might be back!

Stay in touch, thanks for reading the blog. Enjoy yourself and each other!
LOVE
CASSIE AND TONY

Sunday, January 2, 2011

The Holiday Season!

Well, it is too overwhelming to think about blogging about our wedding. You will have to visit Facebook for that. I may muster up the courage to sift through the millions of photos and post an entry, but for now, I will focus on the holidays. I will say that we had a phenomenal day on September 25th, 2010 for our wedding. So we are now husband and wife and thoroughly enjoying married life!

The Holidays started out in November when my parents (& Lola) drove down to VA for Thanksgiving
We took lots of walks on the beach


We made Thanksgiving dinner in our tiny apartment kitchen!

A quaint little Thanksgiving meal.

After we finished up our very busy and crazy Fall semester, we headed down to Miami. We drove 18 hours and stayed overnight at our friends Jack & Jessica's house. This is their new baby, Nicolas! We had a great time visiting with them before they dropped us off to our Port to catch a Cruise on Norwegian Cruise Line for our delayed Honeymoon.

Setting Sail on our 5-day cruise! The cold front moved in this evening, and we awoke in the middle of the night to 15' swells rocking the boat. Because of the weather we could not make it to Grand Caymen our supposed first stop.
The Mexican Flag

We were able to stop in Cozumel and we hopped a ferry to the mainland (Playa del Carmen) and hired a taxi with another family we met on the cruise. The taxi took us straight to Tulum. The family we met were so much fun to hang out with! We swapped traveling stories and hope to keep in touch. If you are reading this - we had a great time with you Nancy, Victor, Alex, & Tori!

The beautiful Mayan ruins overlook the ocean!
We took a quick dip in the beach below - the water was beautiful!



We took our taxi driver out to lunch in Tulum, Mexico where we had a scrumptious meal
The streets of Playa del Carmen
Playa del Carmen
A Happy Hour Margarita after some tough holiday shopping!
Cozumel just before we had to get back on the ship.
Breakfast in bed!
Last night on the cruise, messing around on the ship - it was a beautiful night!
Who is that girl Tony is flirting with!

It was a beautiful Honeymoon cruise, though we wish we could have gone snorkeling in Grand Caymen. We did enjoy the food on the ship though...we ate our faces off! haha


On our drive home, we stopped in Clearwater, FL to visit my Aunt Chris & Uncle Tom. It was great to catch up with them!
We got to meet my cousins Joe & Theresa's son Steele for the first time
And here is their daughter Madison too.

We got back to VA for three days worth of work and then hopped right back into the car to drive up to CT for Christmas.

We got to see my God-daughter, Caitlyn and her parents Jen & Matt, for a fun, but brief visit on Christmas Eve. Caitlyn was much more interested in Tony than in me - she loved high-fiving with him!
She loved her gifts :)

This is the one photo I have from Christmas Eve at my cousin Dana's house. Susie - Erik's girlfriend drinking Aunt Theresa's home-made egg nog.
This picture is hilarious - so many subtitles I could write here... how about "Tony & Erik enjoying some quality time at the Holidays" ahaha
Christmas morning... Santa came for Lola too

Susie was so excited to get this coat - no more freezing her booty off in Boston
We met up with the other CT Benson's at the nursing home visiting Nana on the day after Chrismas. We had a great time hanging out with them for most of the day!
The snow started falling and we decided to head to our house for some leftover Turkey dinner after we tucked Nana into bed. We had a great afternoon visiting with Aunt Helen, Uncle George & Sara
Later that evening we celebrated Christmas with the Wallaces, for once EVERYONE was there! All the kids and their spouses. It was a great time exchanging gifts.
Meg, Jessica & Nicolas
Meg & Pete's daughter Ellie having fun playing with all of her new toys!
Lola enjoyed sleeping with Tony over vacation, often pushing me out of the bed in the morning!

We got to get up to the Cape at the end of the vacation and got to see the Massachusetts Bensons and Aunt Patty & Uncle Peter, too. I did not do a good job with the camera towards the end of the trip, but we had fun in the cozy cottage.

On our drive home we also stopped in New York City and were able to visit with Karen, Brian, Jim, Elizabeth & Juliette. The city was still reeling from the snow storm, piles of snow everywhere! After 13 hours of driving on Dec. 30th we arrived home in VA. Tony has been working at the Restaurant trying to make a few bucks more before he leaves that job in a week or so to fully focus on school and job search. We start back to school soon - this will be my final semester! Tony has a bit more coursework to do and then it is dissertation time.

All in all it was a fantastic & busy holiday. We are two very lucky people to have such wonderful friends and family. While we didn't get to see any of the Stafford's this holiday, we spoke to almost all of them. We'll see you all next year in Ohio!

We hope everyone had a very Merry Holiday and we wish all of you a healthy & happy New Year!

Saturday, July 31, 2010

No-way it's NORWAY!

Well, most of you know that TWO WHEEL VIEW called me in May with a last minute request for me to co-lead the Norway 2010 trip. Of course I said yes - luckily my work is flexible and I have been able to makeup hours. So here are some pictures of the trip. It was myself, two trip leaders, one from US and one from Canada. We had 6 boys and 4 girls, 6 from Canada and 4 from the US. Touring the city of Tromso with Jens Ole our host and guide. The American group got to do this the first day while the Canadians were still en route. They had a problem with their flights in Canada so they arrived 24 hours later.
We met the Deputy Mayor of Tromso inside the City Hall. We learned about how environmentally conscious the city is, and that politics in Norway are very equal. It is required that there is at least 40% of one gender. In Tromso it is about 50-50 male and female in office.
This was a yummy reindeer stew meal made for us the first day we were out on the bikes. We biked to Ramsfjord camp where we stayed in cabins and learned about the Sami people while enjoying dinner and a nice fire in a Lavvu (a traditional Sami tent which looks like a TeePee).
Here is a Lavvu frame near our cabins. We also enjoyed a traditional Sauna while we were here.
The reflection of the midnight sun - this picture was taken around midnight.
Biking was beautiful when the sun was out, more challenging when it was raining and there was a headwind, but we faired pretty well.
There were multiple ferry crossings most biking days, here you can see how clear the fjord is - incredible scenery in the Arctic Circle!
This camp I affectionately call "Mosquito Camp". While it was arguably one of the most beautiful campsites I have ever stayed at, it was so buggy, most of us just wanted to get inside our tents! But we were able to see the midnight sun well here. The moss was super thick and soft to sleep on. Great night sleep with a blindfold over my eyes.
I took this picture on our rest day in Storslett. We enjoyed a wonderful cabin and hung around and dried out from the wet ride into town.
Our cabin had grass on the roof which is a typical style of many of the homes in Norway.
We also enjoyed some hotdogs at a fire in another Lavvu. Our host Marit joined us with her two sons.
We had fun telling stories and it was here that the Canadians taught me the geography of Canada. We also tried special Norwegian candy, it looks like it is gummy candy covered in sugar, but when you taste it, it is actually covered in a thick layer of salt! Not very often you see so many people spitting out candy...
Here was a great lunch spot with a scenic view.



We went canoeing in the fjord outside of Storsteinnes on our second day off. A friend named Roy set this up for us, unfortunately the weather got really bad and we were fighting the wind rain and cold so it was a quick ride.
Here is the moss up close.
This picture was taken in Sommeroy which is a resort town that we drove to in order to go to a festival. We also took a short hike up to this point and looked at the view of the Atlantic Ocean. It was magical.



Here is the group - Canadians, Americans, and a few Norwegians in there too

Overall it was a fantastic trip. There were some challenges as usual, but Two Wheel View continues to be a great organization to work for. I value the opportunity to share such experiences with young people from all over.

Now that I am back, it is wedding planning and school prep. School starts for me August 21st. Tito has been going to school and working all summer, so nothing new there. But he is gearing up for a freshman orientation program in August at ODU. That's the news from here!

Hope all is well - if in fact anyone is still reading this!